Marriage is an important
sacred ceremony between two people who are not just in-love but who
believe in the sanctity of a wonderful relationship. Its purpose is to
create life and build family. It is a gift that can be reciprocated
through a legal ceremony, which is prescribed by law, which was
established anciently. This is not just a tradition but also a
commandment being observed by everyone who was taught that love should
be shared between a man and a woman. Nonetheless, there is a strong
proposition that special feelings between two people of the same sex
should also have the same privilege that others are enjoying. Debates
and arguments have been made if this is really a valid act to be
sustained or not. Here are the 10 most significant reasons why same-sex
marriages should not be legalized:
10. Lower Life Expectancy
Admit it or not, there are associated
diseases that would affect mortality of individuals who are engaged in
unsafe sex especially that the typical way of expressing and sharing it
would result to various diseases. This is just the primary effect. There
are other psychological disorders that were noted, which are clinically
proven and supported by figures and facts. Homosexuality is not being
condoned generally or personally, but for health concern and security.
It is being opposed by medical experts themselves.
9. Wrong Foundation in Society
This is not a question of personality but
the weakening effects it could generate to individuals who are fragile,
innocent, and young. They would have a wrong concept and definition of
everything that they see. Social norms and traditions would change and
it would be a challenge for everyone to accept it since majority opposes
to this idea.
8. Way to Unacceptable Behaviors
It would inculcate wrong perception and
ideas about freedom. It would trigger unlikely and unruly behavior not
just to these people who cannot identify themselves in specific gender
since this is an apparent and very evident weakness. In fact, there
could be odd ideas that someone could marry anyone or even anything that
exists.
7. Divorce Rate Will Increase
Although divorce is legal in some countries
but it does not mean that everyone could simply file a divorce if they
are fed up with their relationship or other personal concerns would
arise. In fact, if same-sex marriages would be legalized, everything
would be easier, anyone could just go out of marriage relationships,
especially those who are experiencing identity crisis and are within the
bonds of marriage.
6. Children Will Be Confused
I hope this would not create any offenses
to anyone. If there is someone in the world that we must be concerned
about, it is not about passing of this bill or legalizing it to be a
law. Young ones are being taught that there are only people created in
the world, which are categorized as male and female. This is being
supported with the curriculum at school. It is part of the right
identification of their personality. If this will push through, there is
a big possibility that it might be included and discussed within the
class. Some who are confused would be more dumbfounded, may find
themselves not trusting their parents, and would just accept what the
law sets and not the inherent concepts of right and wrong.
5. Power of Procreation Will Cease
This is the major purpose of marriage,
which is to create family. Of course, some would say that they can still
adapt children and treat as their own but confusion might arise and
other social problems would take place. Power of procreation is a
special sacred gift, which is holy given to all who underwent the
covenant of marriage. This is instituted and approved between a man and a
woman who have accepted the matrimony of marriage.
4. Laws Will Be Diluted
This is the scary and frightening argument
and predicament that the society might witness. If this will be approved
and acknowledged as legal, it would open to all other possibilities of
unacceptable ideas that might be considered valid. Some of the issues,
which are still in debate that could have an inch hope higher if this
proposal would continue, are the practice of multiple marriages, and
other immoral acts that could lead to demoralization of the society and
younger generations.
3. Courts Rejected It
Despite of the strong movement coming from
the third-sex group that it should be legalized, majority still rules.
In fact, even higher courts have rejected it. Despite of the unaccepted
ruling done by the California Supreme Court for allowing same-sex
marriage to be judicial and implementable, it caught criticism not just
within the United States but even worldwide.
2. Marriage Will Be Deemed Lightly
If people today are taking everything
lightly and have trampled the sanctity of power of sacredly creating
life, it also connotes that they do not value the power and influence of
marriage to every individual. In fact, statistics have shown that early
pregnancy and abortion has increased largely and greatly by 20% because
of the idealism and modernization that the world is undergoing. The
conservative and right is still at its position that marriage must take
place and not the idea of trial and error relationship.
1. It is a Sin
No matter how we twist every angle and
argument of the facts, it is specifically condoned by religious groups.
Whether you are Christian or not, people find it degradable to the moral
values being taught within our homes, schools, and other social
circles. Although separation of state and Church must be observed, but
moral conscience must be followed also. This is not irrational but this
is the meaning of RIGHT from the so-called RIGHTS inculcated to the
minds of some who are active and enthusiastic in legalizing it.
The perception stated on this article is
not to cause humiliation, deprivation, and discouragement to some who
are in-love and would want to share the same experiences that others
have. It is under the cause of truth, right, and values that must be
preserved and protected.
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