10 Things to Keep in Mind Before Start Flirting

When you hear the word flirting, we think of the negative connotation of the word itself. In fact, it is actually complex. There are various gestures and suggestions that a man or a woman may do that he or she wants to be closer to the person that they are attracted. In most cases, it is more on body language that indicates that the person likes you so much. Hence, there are things that you should know before you find yourself doing the flirtatious activities. These are the things that would help you decide if you would flirt or not.

10. You Are Special

You do not need to let them know that you are beautiful or handsome. Knowing that you are beautiful on your own way makes you special and no one can take that away. You do not need to prove the world that you are attractive. In fact, people become important by being themselves and without going beyond the limits. There are people like your family and friends who love you more than anyone or anything in this world despite of individual differences and arguments.

9. Choose Good Friends

Make sure that you are surrounded by good people who will inspire you to make right choices, which will make you a good person and not influence you to do something that is not really a part of your personality. Even if you are an independent and a carefree person, it does not mean that you will be affected by what your peers do. Get away from your so-called “brotherhood or sisterhood” which will let you lose respect from others and taint your reputation.

8. Open for Possible Theft

With the situation of the world today, every criminal minds may use this to tempt you that they like you but the opposite what they really want is to get even from you. There are even reports that with the usage of social networking sites, someone loses their valuable possessions because they allowed it to happen.

7. Self-Respect Diminishes

This is something that you would have a hard time redeeming back. It will take time and season to let the wrong decisions be forgotten. You would have temporary pleasures after talking and doing “beyond the limitations” because of the simple smiles, touches, and other body languages. However, what you really get is not really happiness but losing the most precious virtue and self-respect.

6. Are you Doing it for Fun or not?

Know your intentions of doing it. There are people, especially the younger generations, who are very vulnerable to the influences of their friends particularly when it comes to their emotions. Think of the person that would be tempted by your lure, especially if you do not have any intentions of taking it seriously. Although the youngsters today do it with no feelings at all, you must be ready of any possible consequences that might come after.

5. Broken Friendships

Most of the relationships that we have, whether it’s a commitment to our significant other or with our family, these relationships have been tested and are built by time and trust just like the friendships or associations that we have with other people. These have been tainted and corrupted because of the wrong move and decisions.

4. Unwanted Pregnancy

Most of the flirtations done would end up in sleeping over with someone. That is the sad reality. Are you ready to do it and become a mother or a father? You cannot get away from your responsibility. Flirting would always end up this way. Don’t you ever solve it with another sin of taking away innocent life inside the mother’s womb.

3. Destroys Your Future

It will destroy your dreams of finishing your studies, having a stable work, and reaching other dreams that you have in the future. Hence, to those who are already married and had done it, they destroy not just themselves, but the future of their kids if they have children and a relationship with wife or husband. Although there is still time to redeem the old flame back, but in most cases, it does not work at all.

2. Life is In Danger

There was news that we have watched that those who let themselves go on the dangerous fires of flirting have found their demise on it. Have you watched the news about the girl on Facebook who had some suggestive messages then later killed by the person whom she flirted with?

1. Make Sure You Are Single

This is not just for married couples but even those who are in a committed relationship. How would you feel if your partner fooled you around? Would you be happy? Will you forgive? For married couples, are you sure that what you do will be a secret forever? Remember, there are no secrets hidden because time will reveal everything.